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10 Struggles of Dating a Quiet Guy

Quiet guys are just as adequate as extroverted guys, maybe even more so because they may not be as cocky or rude and could be better listeners, but there are definitely some downsides to dating the quiet guy. 10. Always having to make the first move to get anything started. This can sometimes be enlightening because the guy isn’t required to make the first move, but when it happens every single time it gets annoying. And when he doesn’t understand your hints, its even more annoying. 9. Whenever you talk to one another, it’s usually a one sided conversation. You either find yourself asking all of the questions and not getting any questions in return or talking about yourself constantly without much responsiveness. 8. It’s a bit awkward when you introduce him to other people because the conversation doesn’t go anywhere. When you’re alone together, you have to train him. 7. He never acts confident

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When your Bestfriend is an Introvert (as an Extrovert)

Firstly, I’d like to make a disclaimer: I am in no way insinuating that this is true for everyone. I am just basing this off of my own experiences and from asking some of my peers and friends. So if some – or all – of this doesn’t apply to you, I’m not questioning your friendships. (Also, the person mentioned in this article has given me permission to use his name and photograph.)   My best friend at college is named Sam – and he is very much an introvert. That’s not to say that he doesn’t have a social life; in fact, every Tuesday after the class we have together, we have laundry and homework time. But come to think of it, I guess that’s not the best example of being “social.”   Anyway. There are definitely both upsides and downsides to having an introverted best friend as an