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How It Feels to Have Never Been in a Serious Relationship

I’m twenty and I’ve never been in a relationship that’s lasted longer than a month or two. But so what, right? I’m only twenty. I still have my entire life ahead of me! I have goals and aspirations and things to learn about myself before I can properly settle down with someone. But it doesn’t always feel that way. Sometimes it just sucks, especially when it seems like everyone around me is in a relationship. There’s been times when I’ve wallowed in self-pity because I somehow convinced myself I’d be #foreveralone (I even have the tweets to prove it). And there’s been times when I thought it was the end of the world, like when I almost didn’t have a prom date and for some godforsaken reason I had to have a date or I wouldn’t go. Instead of thinking that I have my whole life ahead of me, I start wondering why I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I start to analyze every relationship

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10 Reasons Why Being Single Is Totally Okay

If you’re single, i’m here to tell you.. It’s okay! Start looking at your single life from a different perspective. Stop being a hopeless romantic who mopes around because they can’t find someone. STOP LOOKING! Also stop saying ” I HATE BEING SINGLE” Have fun, focus on yourself, and let that lucky person come out of nowhere. I understand that you get lonely sometimes, BUT in reality you can get anybody you want. The right guy/girl will show up, and you’ll end up happily ever after.. But for now, start accepting that being single is totally okay. 10. You have plenty of freedom. 9. There are plenty of fish in the sea. 8. You can focus on yourself and who YOU want to become. 7. You don’t have to share your food. 6. You’re able to save money quicker and easier.

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8 Phrases Girls Are Tired Of Hearing From Guys

Alright let’s break it down.. Boys, girls know how to read in between the lines just as easily as you can. With that being said there are a few phrases that girls know the exact meaning behind.. Every single time and we’re tired of hearing them! These phrases are used so often between guys we see right through them, yes there is a chance you’re actually being genuine about it… but come on! Test the waters and take a chance for once, stop using these phrases! There will always be a fear of getting together with someone new, but chances are you’re going to miss out on something great. 8. “It’s not you, it’s me”- Classic…. Guys are always blaming their own self to get out of it. 7. “You’re too good of a girl/ too good for me”- What does this even mean? Shouldn’t you be happy that you scored a super

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20 Excuses We All Use For Being Single

The saying has always been “Single and ready to mingle!”. Why can’t we change it to single and happy? No matter what the reason is for being single, your Great Great Aunt Becky will always plead for you to get in a relationship and start having children soon. The truth is you’re happy with a take-away pizza and a night in watching Netflix. There are a lot of reasons you can tell yourself (and others) for why you’re single, but it really comes down to whatever status makes you happy.   20. I don’t want a boyfriend/girlfriend. 19. I am too young to be tied down! 18. I don’t like commitment. 17. I hate texting people back. 16. I want to save my money, I can barely afford myself! 15. I won’t have time to hang out with them anyways.

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6 Things College Girls Choose Over Having A Boyfriend

6. Self -Esteem Every girl at some point in their life has had low self-esteem. In fact the average girl goes the majority of her life hating almost everything about herself. We tell our friends we look fat, we need a second and third opinion on all of our outfits, we call ourselves stupid and ugly and constantly criticize ourselves. And all the time we wish more than anything to have more confidence, to believe in ourselves, to love ourselves. That is something a lot of girls struggle with. The truth is we would all rather have some more self-confidence than a knight in shining armor.     5. Netflix Well come on this is pretty self-explanatory; I mean there is always something to watch, no matter what mood you’re in. You want a romantic comedy? Maybe a wedding show? And action movie? An informative documentary? It’s got all that